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What price a ruined life?

The Christian Brothers’ industrial school in Artane, Dublin, where young boys were subjected to unimaginable abuse.

In 1998, I was on holiday to Ireland from France, where I then lived, with my then 3 and 4 year old sons and their Dad.  After a meal in a restaurant in Ballyvaughan, Co Clare, myself and my youngest son came down with a severe bout of food poisoning.  It turned out that a dodgy batch of eggs had caused an outbreak of Salmonella, and the place was shut down immediately by the authorities. 

Lawsuits swiftly followed. The restaurant accepted full culpability, and their insurers paid out to all of the victims without dragging their heels. My son was awarded €4,000, money he can only access on turning 18. He’s always called it his “car money”. 

I got €9,000, which is just about the amount of money the religious orders have contributed in compensation to each one of the victims of their communities.  

As a result of the Salmonella, I lost a few pounds and had to “endure” a week or so off work. The only long term effect is a lingering distrust of hollandaise sauce.  

14,584 former residents of Catholic children’s homes and institutions in Ireland have had to live with the psychological scarring of their abusers’ actions all of their lives.  More couldn’t, and killed themselves or died as a result of their addictions.  Others ended up in and out of jail.  The irony that it was many of the victims, and not their abusers, who ended up with criminal records, was not lost on Michael, an extraordinary man who spoke eloquently and movingly of his suffering on Newstalk Radio yesterday morning.  The shocking truths revealed in the Ryan report in recent days are almost unbearable to read or hear.  That the state and church colluded over decades in the abuse of innocent, vulnerable children makes me feel like the ordinary German must have felt after Auschwitz was liberated in 1945. 

The murky deal that the government signed on behalf of the taxpayer with the religious orders was negotiated in 2002, years before the true extent of the abuse was revealed.  It should be null and void, and the religious orders involved should pay out generously and without question to the survivors.

And that’s just for starters.  Next, they need to name the perpetrators and let those who are still living stand trial and go to jail. Then they could take up Alice Leahy’s suggestion.  As founder of Trust, an organisation dedicated to the homeless, Alice has no doubt come across plenty of the victims in her day. Her idea is that the religious congregations build and fund (but let others run, for obvious reasons) a comfortable, accessible, friendly hostel where men and women who have lived lives of pain and suffering thanks to their childhood treatment can feel welcomed, cared for and safe.

The religious orders doing the right thing at this late stage of the game won’t take away the pain of any of the survivors.  But it would be the first evidence of Christian behaviour on their part since this whole episode came to light.

Comments:

I’m been debating writing a post on this, yours is v moving, eloquent and to the point. I’ve been moved to tears listening to the radio these past few days and what seems the worst thing is that these people were supposedly Christians, how could anyone be so cruel. It’s not just the sexual abuse, but the physical and emotional as well - to tiny, young, defenceless children.
I agreee with your comment re how the ordinary German must have felt in 1945 - a good comparison. Proud to be Irish this week - I think not!

Thanks so much Lorna - I know exactly what you mean - it’s just so painful to listen to these poor people tell us what their lives were like. There but for the grace of God, etc… I’m reeling in shock again - just heard on the evening news that the 18 congregations involved have decided to ignore the calls of Cardinal Sean Brady, Archibishop of Dublin Diarmuid Martin and Bishop Willie Walsh of Killaloe, and will “not revisit” the deal they made with the government. Who do they think they are?? I hope there’s at least a protest march so we can all express how we feel about this….

In the Irish Times on Saturday, the whole letters page was devoted to people’s responses to the Ryan Report. One man suggested that we all walk to the Phoenix Park again, as we did (a million of us) in 1979 to see the Pope. That we pick a day and walk there together to, in his words, sit in silence and cry together. I may be misquoting, you should look the letter up. I’ve decided that I am going to write to the paper too, to second his suggestion. The vicitims were vicitimised again during the so-called enquiries, with many people being told they were lying by the church. They need to see a huge mass demonstration of solidarity. We believe them. We are on their side. Suzie D

I missed Saturday’s paper Suzie - will look it up now. I think that’s a brilliant idea and will do what I can to publicise it too….the symbolism of the Phoenix Park is very appropriate.
Thanks and let’s see what happens next….Rosie

did you see Q & A last night? Paddy Anglican (blog) has a 5 min clip from a man who was raped and beaten, taken into care along with his 7 brothers and sisters. Really really Heartrending stuff. I know it’s not the answer but these sisters (and brothers) of ‘mercy’ etc are just doubling the pain. To suggest that these victims are just after money is downright cruel, as if money could bring back their childhoods.

Didn’t see it Lorna but heard the same man on Newstalk at the weekend. Devastating. Will check the blog you mentioned too, thanks. I’m about to tune into Prime Time who are doing a special tonight. We can’t just forget about this and let “the fuss” die down (which is no doubt what CORI want). I think Suzi Diamond’s suggestion (see comment above) re the man who proposed the walk to the Phoenix Park is a great idea…

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